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Becoming “New to the Pew”!

Being young and having to be a part of an adult world can be pretty intimidating, especially when transitioning from being in Children’s Church—where it is okay to wiggle, talk and even be silly—to sitting through a worship service where you have to be still, be quiet and probably have no idea what all is going on around you!

102015newpews2At Friedberg Moravian Church, we have a “New to the Pew” program where we meet with children who just completed second grade to teach them about what they are going to be doing once they become active participants during worship.

I offer a class about what it is going to be like when they actually go to “big church”! Parents are a part of this class as well so they can learn some things their child may be thinking, and sometimes even fearing, will happen within the service. Here is what we cover:

  • Different Parts — Where do we listen, talk, give or pray during worship? I teach them to take little stickers that are provided and mark their bulletins at the different times we do each of these.
  • Different Service Types — Communions, Lovefeasts, Baptisms, special occasions and even liturgy readings. We talk about the set-up of the service and where we listen, talk, sing and pray.
  • Service Expectations — Participation throughout the first part of the service is a must! Once the sermon begins, the children have a worship bag containing activities they can do. They will still need to listen to the sermon because several of the activities have to do with certain words being said or even specific prayers mentioned throughout the sermon.
  • Miss church? No problem! — We brainstorm ideas of ways for the children to take Jesus with them on the road: play/sing Christian music, play the ABC game and look for church-related objects, take the Moravian Daily Texts along and read it as a family and remember to pray!
  • Familiar Passages — We look at the words for the Moravian Table Blessing (said and sung), the doxology, the Lord’s Prayer, the Apostle’s Creed and the Old Testament Benediction so they will be able to recognize certain passages within worship.

Before we are done with the “New to the Pew” class, I give each child a copy of The Story for Kids and parents receive Parenting in the Pew by Robbie Castleman. These hopefully will help guide them through questions or trials that may come up while they transition from “new to the pew” to being active participants in worship.

Heidi Everhart is director of Children’s Ministry at Friedberg Moravian Church. For more information on “New to the Pew,” contact Heidi at


From the October 2015 Moravian Magazine

Moravian Daily Texts


Wednesday, May 23 — Psalm 68:19–27
Numbers 12:1–13:16; Mark 13:14–27

One who is slow to anger is better than the mighty and one whose temper is controlled than one who captures a city. Proverbs 16:32

Let us then pursue what makes for peace and for mutual upbuilding. Romans 14:19

God of peace, your word tells us we must not only seek peace, but pursue it. Grant us the faith to trust in you, so that we may lay down our arms. Give
us the strength to make peace, so that we may be blessed. We thank you for all your faithful servants who have taught us the way of peace and justice, especially your son, Jesus Christ, in whose name we pray. Amen.

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